Melbourne's memories

Assalamualaikum & hello~

Memandangkan time ni aku tetiba rindu my friends dekat Melbourne, so nak kongsi sikit..eh jap..nak kongsi banyak la..hehehe..pasal aku, diorang and Melbourne. ape? xnak tau? alaaaa~~~ nak cerita jugak..! hahaha..kalau xnak tau jugak...ermmmmm..kena baca jugak..LOL..

Before I tell u guys about my friends, I would like to tell u about my first year. Honestly speaking, my first year dekat Melbourne was my worst year ever in term of social life. It was my first time leaving Malaysia. I never felt that lonely, scared, sorrow and lost before. I went there alone [my parent can't follow me cause flight ticket's so expensive] and stayed at the temporary apartment in the city. I arrived in Melbourne a week earlier before orientation week. That time, I was struggle with finding a house to rent. I searched for almost two weeks and luckily I found one near my University. When my classes's start, I can't even make friends with my classmate or people in the university and plus my English are not that good. To make it short, one year I'm in Melbourne, I managed to get just 1 viatnamese friend [I posted my photo with her in the previous story] and kitorang still kawan sampai sekarang. I think I wasted a year of my time there doing nothing. Just stayed in my room even on my semester break.

Luckily, one guy named Syam from my university's Malaysian Club approached me and asked me to join the club. At first, I hesitated to join since I don't have any friend to registered together. I'm really want to thanks him cause he insists at that time and make me register. so he was my second friend there. From that moment, he introduced me to the fellow Malaysian members. After that, whenever they saw me in campus, they will wave or say hi or smile at me. I feel so happy and started to like my life there.

After that I moved to Malaysian Hall Melbourne. It's a student residential for MALAYSIAN only. There were lots of Malaysian student staying there from different university. This is the place where my life getting better and better. I can proudly said that I really love living there. Masa dekat Malaysian Hall, aku ada kawan-kawan yang rapat dengan aku. Diorang ni dah macam my brothers and sisters, my small family to be exact. I feels like I'm in Malaysia and close to my family when they're around. we had each others back, eat together, play together, watching movies together, laugh together, sharing stories together, road trip together, hiking together, gossiping, senang cerita kebanyakan aktiviti memang kitorang buat sesama.

Unfortunately, I have to go back to Malaysia due to a few factors yang xdapat nak elak. One day, at the restaurant after finished our dinner, I told them that I'm going back for good. They looks suprised and the girls are crying while the boys just sit there quietly. That make me sad and can't hold my tears anymore. I cried with them that night. A few week after that, they throw me a farewell party. It was so great and nice to be with all of them before fly back. I'm really thankful for what they did for me. At that time I know for sure that they really love me [hahahaha..perasan kejap..]. And I admit that I love them sooooooo much. Then I fly back to Malaysia with mixed feeling. Happy and sad at the same time.

Tujuan aku tulis cerita ni bukan nak bangga yang aku pernah belajar kat Melbourne, tapi nak cerita how thankful i am having friends like them. So, nak ambil kesempatan ni nak cakap THANK YOU SO MUCH cause sudi jadi my friend and be with me during my up and down, support me everytime i feels like want to give up. For korang yang curious sape kawan aku yang baik gila ni, I'm proudly present their name [gambar xboleh bagi sorang-sorang sebab nanti korang bawak jumpa bomoh pulak..hahahaha..just kidding..] :

1. Dillah [my lovely twin]
2. Syam [my MARIO game buddy]

3. Syed [my best buddy]

4. Syazwan [my Mr.President]

5. Kak Dayah [my dearest kakak]

6. Awin [my cute friend]

7. All my friends [Malaysian Hall peeps, Malaysian Club peeps, Melbourne peeps that know me]

Mesti korang macam terpikir kan? Dah kenapa pulak aku letak nama diorang ni? Bukan diorang tau pon. Bukannya penting pon bagi korang kan? hahha..tapi aku xkisah..nak jugak letak nama diorang..sebab diorang ni my precious friends..hahaha..

Last sekali, nak bagitau korang yang kawan memang senang nak dapat, tapi kawan yang nak besusah dan senang dengan kita susah nak cari. 

For my friends that I mention above, all the best in your study there. I always pray for your success. I will always remember all our precious memories that we shared together. Thank you again and I really miss u guys, like a lots..I love u eternally!!

my farewell party's Group photo

Tetiba rasa macam story kali ni emo pulak..hahaha..but I don't care..still nak share dengan korang..LOL..

ANNOYING FRIEND - Contoh perangai annoying & Cara nak handle

Hi Guys..I want to share with you guys about this topic which is ANNOYING FRIEND. Dalam banyak-banyak kawan yang korang ada, mesti akan ada sorang yang perangai dia annoying gila. Bila dia ada je mesti rasa malas nak layan, mood xada, and macam-macam lagi lah..If you guys ada kawan yang macam ni, I felt sorry for you all (huhuhuhu).

Contoh-contoh perangai yang I feel it's so annoying is:

1. Too clingy (asyik nak berkepit je 24/7).

Urghhh..so annoying..korang mesti tau kan ape 'Clingy". Maksudnya asyik nak berkepit je dengan kita 24/7. Dah macam kembar yang melekat pulak. Tapi kalau kawan-kawan yang selalu lepak or hang out dengan kita are not consider a clingy person okay! One thing I've notice about clingy person ni, dia mesti akan rasa takut ter'left out' from the group. So, nak avoid that situation, dia akan follow je kita kemana-mana kita pergi walaupon susah untuk dia. Walaupun dia ada kelas in between time kita nak pergi mana-mana tu, dia still nak join after her/his class walaupun jauh.

2. Suka menyibuk

OMG!!!! yang ni lagi annoying. Dia punya tahap menyibuk tu, dah macam mami jarum. Mami jarum pon boleh angkat bendera putih dengan dia. semua benda dia nak tau. Kalau boleh from A to Z dia nak tau. HELLO!!! setiap org pon ada private space okay. Tak kan la semua benda nak kena bagitau dia pulak.

3. Spesis Kera

Org yang spesis kera ni maknanya yang suka kebas makanan kawan dia tapi bila makanan dia, kedekut taik hidung masin. Spesis ni memang layak bagi penampar sikit. hahahahhaha

Ada banyak lagi perangai yang annoying ni tapi 3 kat atas ni je la yang aku rasa paling ANNOYED bagi aku. So, korang dah tau kan ciri-ciri org yang annoying ni. Kalau dah tau, jom I give you an idea on how to handle this kind of people with no hard feeling. Korang jangan xnak kawan dengan dia pulak bila dapat tau dia clingy. Try to give them a second chance. Everyone deserve a second chance (ceeeewaaahhhhh).

Ada dua cara yang aku boleh suggest,

1. Try to make them realize their mistake with your body language (cth: tak invite dia hang out). Memang dengar macam kasar tapi it work. Sebab bila dia dapat tau kita keluar lepak xajak dia, mesti dia rasa pelik. Baru la dia akan fikir what's wrong with her/him.

2. Kalau tak berkesan, boleh try to have a serious conversation. This method are more effective and easier to settle. Tapi jangan sampai gaduh pulak. serious conversation means heart to heart conversation. Bagitau dia secara jujur yang korang rasa rimas dengan perangai dia yang annoying tu.

Korang dah tau ciri-ciri orang annoying and cara nak handle this kind of people. So kepada sesiapa yang ada kawan macam ni, all the best la (sebab I know how it feel to have an annoying friend..LOL). The most important thing is, don't give up on your friend cause friendship is a wonderful kind of relationship.

*The point above are from my opinion. I understand if ada sesiapa yang xsetuju sebab different people has a different way of thinking. Cheers.

friendship vs love

assalamualaikum..lamanya xupdate blog kn..??sampai dh bersawang dh..kalau biar lg lama..nnt spider buat pesta pulak kt dlm blog aku ni..hikhik..biasa la..sibok sikit kehidupan seorang student ni..[sibok la sgt kn..] hehe..sebenarnya xda idea nk tulis ape semenjak dua menjak ni..pikir punya pikir..still xdpt idea..last-last lyn cita indon..hehe..masa tengah syok dok lyn cita indon tu..tiba-tiba..tinggg!!!!![mentol menyala..ha??xphm??mentol menyala tu maksudnya idea sudah sampai la..hehe]..so idea dh sampai tu adalah..jeng..jeng..jeng..hikhik..suspen x?suspen x?hahaha..ideanya adalah friendship vs love..haaaa..ni bukan nk cita pasal wrestling[mentang-mentang da prkataan 'vs' msti nk pikir wrestling..hikhik..] ni aku nk cita pasal pendapat aku samada pentingkn lover or friendship..eh..eh..jgn salah phm pulak..of cos la suma org da pndapat masing-masing kn..so..lain org lain la pndapatnya..hehe..ni cuma pndapat saya..no hard feeling ye..kalo nk feeling-feeling pon jgn..seram I..haha..

ok..back to our topic for this post..'FRIENDSHIP vs LOVE'..wahh..bunyi mcm gah je tajuk kn..padahal isi mengarut je lebih..hehe..pada pendapat korang, mana satu lg penting?aku da 2 situasi..

situasi 1 :

korang da bestfriend [lelaki/perempuan]..korang dh kwn lama sgt..maybe dh 3,4,5 thn or dari korang kecik..selalu lepak sesama..kongsi rahsia sesama..sedih and gembira sesama..pendek kata..korang mmg byk spend time and share secret sesama la..but suddenly, one day u realize that korang jatuh cinta kt dia..tp dia xtahu..

my opinion :

kalau aku, aku pendam je perasaan aku kt dia..aku xkn luahkn..sebab aku takut kalau aku luahkn perasaan aku..nnt hubungan aku dgn dia jd awkward [xtahu la betul ke x aku eja..hikhik..]..automatik kitorang akan menjauh..so keadaan xakan jd seperti sebelumnya..BUT..if dia yg luahkn perasaan dia kt aku..and at the same time aku pon suka kt dia..why not..hehe..so..for this situation, i prefer friendship!

situasi 2 :

korang and bestfriend korang kebetulan suka kt lelaki/perempuan yg sama..

my opinion :

dlm situasi ni susah sikit sebab korang akan rasa dilemma..tp bg aku, aku akan undur diri sebelum perasaan aku makin parah..aku akan biarkan kwn aku yg dptkn lelaki tu..and aku xteragak-agak nk tlg kwn aku tu..as long as kwn aku happy..then i will be happy..

so, aku ni boleh dikategorikan sebagai friendship maniac..hehe..aku lebih utamakan persahabatan aku daripada percintaan..bg aku persahabatan susah nk cari yg betul-betul sejati..bila dh jumpa sahabat sejati, jgn sia-siakn..percintaan pulak mmg dh lumrah akn ada yg terluka for someone else being happy..so one day, korang akan jumpa jugak dgn Mr.right korang..i really appreciate my friendship dgn sesapa pon..once they betrayed me..i will forgive them tapi susah nk bg kepercayaan aku kepada diorang..maybe korang akan ckp yg aku ni tipu..tp aku xkisah..i know who i am..hehe..

lg sekali aku bagitahu..setiap org ada pendapat mereka masing-masing..this is my opinion..so kalau korang murah hati nk share korang punya opinion tentang tajuk ni..boleh la comment..in shaa Allah aku akan balas..last words from me..just appreciate ape yg ada depan mata korang..and jgn mainkan perasaan org lain sbb satu hari nnt mungkin korang akan menerima nasib yg sama..

sampai sini je dulu..nnt da masa aku post lg..love u all..hikhik..papai everybody..tatatititutu..^^